Fazla iyi niyet, insan\u0131 kendinden \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemeye mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131r.\u00d6yle zamanlar ya\u015fad\u0131m ki ne konu\u015farak anlatabildim kendimi ne de suskunlu\u011fum kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k buldu.\u015eimdi ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fcp \u015f\u00f6yle bir bak\u0131yorum da kimler i\u00e7in yormu\u015fum kendimi.Herkesin \u201co al\u0131\u015fk\u0131n, o halleder, o affeder\u201d dedi\u011fi ki\u015fi olmu\u015fum da bir tek kendime zor gelmi\u015fim. Herkesin her \u015feyi olmu\u015fum da bir tek kendimi hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde unutmu\u015fum.\u0130nsan bunu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ge\u00e7 fark eder. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na iyi davranmay\u0131 erdem sanarak ya\u015far; anlar, tolere eder, susar ve sonunda ta\u015far.Ama bir g\u00fcn herkese g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 kendinden esirgedi\u011fini anlar. Hep g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insan, en sonunda kendi sesini duyamaz hale gelir.Kendimden \u00d6z\u00fcr Dilerim bir su\u00e7lama kitab\u0131 de\u011fil.Bir hesapla\u015fma hi\u00e7 de\u011fil. Bu kitap; kendini ihmal etti\u011fin y\u0131llarla y\u00fczle\u015fme, kendi de\u011ferini yeniden hat\u0131rlama ve kendine ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015f bir \u00f6zr\u00fc yerine koyma \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan bazen ba\u015fkalar\u0131na de\u011fil, en \u00e7ok kendine haks\u0131zl\u0131k eder.Ve bazen iyile\u015fmek, kimseden de\u011fil, kendinden \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemekle ba\u015flar.Bu kitap, kendimizi ihmal etti\u011fimiz y\u0131llar\u0131n, g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fimiz k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n ya da \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ac\u0131lar\u0131n hesab\u0131n\u0131 tutmak i\u00e7in yaz\u0131lmad\u0131.Onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ink\u00e2r etmeden, kendimizle yeniden temas edebilmek i\u00e7in yaz\u0131ld\u0131.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen iyile\u015fme, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 bizi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fil, kendi yaram\u0131za ilk kez ciddiyetle dokundu\u011fumuzda ba\u015flar.Bu sayfalar, \u201cArt\u0131k yeter,\u201d demekten \u00e7ok, kendine ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015f bir insan\u0131n sessiz ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir y\u00fczle\u015fmesine e\u015flik eder.Belki okurken, y\u0131llard\u0131r ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u00fcklerin sana ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edeceksin.Belki i\u00e7indeki o sessiz \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131 ilk kez bu kadar net duyacaks\u0131n.Ve belki de ilk defa, kendine \u015funu s\u00f6yleyebileceksin:\u201cKendim… Sana ge\u00e7 kald\u0131m. \u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fazla iyi niyet, insan\u0131 kendinden \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemeye mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131r.\u00d6yle zamanlar ya\u015fad\u0131m ki ne konu\u015farak anlatabildim kendimi ne de suskunlu\u011fum kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k buldu.\u015eimdi ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fcp \u015f\u00f6yle bir bak\u0131yorum [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"product_brand":[],"product_cat":[12364,12376],"product_tag":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-785852","1":"product","2":"type-product","3":"status-publish","5":"product_cat-genel-konular","6":"product_cat-kisisel-gelisim","7":"pa_cilt-ciltsiz","8":"pa_tur-kitap","9":"pa_yayinevi-indigo-kitap","10":"pa_yazar-mirac-cagri-aktas","12":"first","13":"instock","14":"sale","15":"shipping-taxable","16":"purchasable","17":"product-type-simple"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product\/785852","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/product"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=785852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"product_brand","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_brand?post=785852"},{"taxonomy":"product_cat","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_cat?post=785852"},{"taxonomy":"product_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_tag?post=785852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}