CarrYaln\u0131zl\u0131k \u00dczerine Konu\u015fmaktan Ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Bir \u00c7a\u011fdaYaln\u0131zl\u0131k, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en yayg\u0131n deneyimlerinden biri ama hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak h\u00e2l\u00e2 zor. Kalabal\u0131klar i\u00e7inde, ili\u015fkilerin tam ortas\u0131nda, i\u015f toplant\u0131lar\u0131nda, aile sofralar\u0131nda bile hissedilen bu duygu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bast\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseniyor ya da ki\u015fisel bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Oysa yaln\u0131zl\u0131k bireysel bir kusur de\u011fil, modern hayat\u0131n sessiz e\u015flik\u00e7isi. Sam Carr, B\u00fct\u00fcn O Yaln\u0131z \u0130nsanlar\u2019da tam da bu sessizli\u011fi k\u0131r\u0131yor. Herkes Yaln\u0131z Ama Farkl\u0131 \u015eekillerdeBu kitap, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 tek bir tan\u0131ma s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yor. Carr gen\u00e7lerle, ya\u015fl\u0131larla, ebeveynlerle, e\u015fini kaybetmi\u015f insanlarla, \u015fehirde ya\u015fayanlarla, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na bakan ama kendisiyle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalanlarla konu\u015fuyor. Ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan tablo net: Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k bazen bir odada tek ba\u015f\u0131na olmaktan de\u011fil, birine derdini anlatamamaktan do\u011fuyor. Bazen kalabal\u0131k bir hayat\u0131n ortas\u0131nda, bazen de herkesin senden bir \u015fey bekledi\u011fi anlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. B\u00fct\u00fcn O Yaln\u0131z \u0130nsanlar yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n tekil de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011ful bir deneyim oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor.Bir Psikoloji Kitab\u0131 Ama \u00d6nce Bir \u0130nsan Kitab\u0131Sam Carr bir sosyal psikolog ama bu kitap akademik mesafeyle yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma de\u011fil. \u0130statistikler, kavramlar ve teoriler arka planda duruyor; \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan \u015fey insanlar\u0131n kendi sesleri. Carr konu\u015ftu\u011fu ki\u015fileri a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131yor, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlemiyor ya da yarg\u0131lam\u0131yor; onlara alan a\u00e7\u0131yor, onlar\u0131 dinliyor ve aktar\u0131yor. Bu y\u00fczden kitap, okurda \u015fu hissi uyand\u0131r\u0131yor: \u201cBenim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey sadece bana ait de\u011fil.\u201dYaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n Utanc\u0131, Sessizli\u011fi ve G\u00f6r\u00fcnmezli\u011fiKitap boyunca tekrar tekrar kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan bir ger\u00e7ek var: Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k sadece ac\u0131 verici de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda utan\u0131lan bir duygu. Carr, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n neden bu kadar az dile getirildi\u011fini, neden \u201cay\u0131p\u201d ya da \u201cay\u0131rt edici\u201d bir zay\u0131fl\u0131k gibi alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorguluyor. Ve bu sessizli\u011fin, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 daha da derinle\u015ftirdi\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor. B\u00fct\u00fcn O Yaln\u0131z \u0130nsanlar yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 konu\u015fman\u0131n bir zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil, ba\u011f kurman\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor.Teselli Etmeyen Ama Yaln\u0131z B\u0131rakmayan Bir KitapBu kitap okura h\u0131zl\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler sunmuyor. \u201c\u015e\u00f6yle yaparsan yaln\u0131zl\u0131k ge\u00e7er\u201d demiyor. Bunun yerine \u015funu yap\u0131yor: Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131na oturuyor. Onu aceleyle susturmuyor. Onunla kal\u0131yor. Ve tam da bu y\u00fczden, okuru hem sarsan hem de rahatlatan bir metin ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.\u201cBu zarif ve b\u00fcy\u00fcleyici kitap, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k etraf\u0131ndaki tabu perdesini aral\u0131yor. Sam Carr, bizi yaln\u0131z insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131na oldu\u011fu kadar kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na da davet ediyor. Empatiyle \u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, ayd\u0131nlat\u0131c\u0131 ve derinlemesine insani bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar, pek \u00e7o\u011fumuzun korkuyla yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir varolu\u015f haline yak\u0131ndan bakmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor.\u201d\u2014Michael Harris, Solitude ve The End of Absence\u2019in yazar\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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