A\u015fk Ger\u00e7ekten Biter mi Yoksa Biz mi Ondan Vazge\u00e7eriz? Romantik a\u015fk\u0131n zamana yenik d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne neredeyse hepimiz inan\u0131r\u0131z. \u0130lk g\u00fcnlerin heyecan\u0131, arzu ve tutku sanki ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bi\u00e7imde solup gider; yerini g\u00fcvenli ama renksiz bir birlikteli\u011fe b\u0131rak\u0131r. Peki ya sorun a\u015fk\u0131n kendisinde de\u011filse? Stephen A. Mitchell, \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f psikanalizin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc isimlerinden biri olarak, bu yayg\u0131n kabule itiraz ediyor ve \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir soruyla kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor: A\u015fk ger\u00e7ekten s\u00fcrmez mi yoksa onu s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclemez hale biz mi getiriyoruz? Romantik A\u015fk\u0131n Kaderini Yeniden D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek A\u015fk S\u00fcrebilir mi?: Zamana Kar\u015f\u0131 Romantik A\u015fk\u0131n Kaderi, a\u015fk\u0131n neden zamanla zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u201cd\u00fczeltilmesi gereken bir sorun\u201d gibi ele al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7o\u011fu ili\u015fkide tutkunun nas\u0131l bast\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 psikanalitik bir bak\u0131\u015fla inceliyor. Mitchell\u2019a g\u00f6re romantik a\u015fk\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 zaman de\u011fil; a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 g\u00fcvenlik, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kontrol ve riskten ka\u00e7ma iste\u011fimiz. Kitap, uzun s\u00fcreli ili\u015fkilerde s\u0131k\u00e7a kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fu \u00e7eli\u015fkilere odaklan\u0131yor: \u2022G\u00fcvenlik ile tutku neden ayn\u0131 anda var olmakta zorlan\u0131yor? \u2022\u201cSorunsuz ili\u015fki\u201d ideali a\u015fk\u0131 neden canl\u0131 tutmuyor, aksine k\u00f6reltiyor? \u2022Yak\u0131nl\u0131k artt\u0131k\u00e7a arzu neden azal\u0131yor? \u2022\u0130li\u015fkilerde huzur aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 neden \u00e7o\u011fu zaman cans\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor? A\u015fk\u0131 Kurtarmaya \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmayan Bir Kitap Bu kitap bir \u201cili\u015fki kurtarma rehberi\u201d de\u011fil. Kolay \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler, maddeler halinde \u00f6neriler ya da mutlu son vaatleri sunmuyor. Bunun yerine okura \u015funu teklif ediyor: A\u015fk\u0131 idealize etmekten vazge\u00e7mek. Mitchell, romantik a\u015fk\u0131n ancak belirsizlik, risk ve kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma ihtimaliyle var olabilece\u011fini savunuyor. A\u015fk\u0131 tamamen g\u00fcvenli hale getirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, onu yava\u015f yava\u015f etkisizle\u015ftirdi\u011fimizi g\u00f6steriyor. Bu y\u00f6n\u00fcyle A\u015fk S\u00fcrebilir mi? rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst, sars\u0131c\u0131 ve ufuk a\u00e7\u0131c\u0131 bir kitap. Risk Almadan Sevemeyece\u011finizi Hat\u0131rlatan Bir Klasik Bu kitap a\u015fk\u0131n s\u00fcr\u00fcp s\u00fcrmeyece\u011fine karar vermiyor; bunun yerine \u015fu sorular\u0131 soruyor: \u2022A\u015fk\u0131n s\u00fcrmesi ne pahas\u0131na olmal\u0131? \u2022Tutkuyu kaybetmeden g\u00fcvenli bir ili\u015fki m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? \u2022Yak\u0131nl\u0131k her zaman iyi midir? \u2022A\u015fkta risk almaktan neden bu kadar korkuyoruz? Ve belki de en \u00f6nemlisi: A\u015fk\u0131 kaybetmekten mi yoksa onun bizi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmesinden mi korkuyoruz? \u201cBu kitab\u0131 okuyanlar, a\u015fk\u0131 art\u0131k daha bilgece ya\u015fayacak.\u201d \u2014Andrew Solomon, Depresyon Atlas\u0131\u2019n\u0131n yazar\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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