\u201cAnnelik do\u011fum (ya da sahiplenme) an\u0131nda kad\u0131na \u2018y\u00fcklenen\u2019 bir program, bir i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fc ya da \u2018kutsal bir g\u00f6rev\u2019 de\u011fil bebek\/\u00e7ocukla kurulan \u00f6zg\u00fcn ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde geli\u015fen d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bir s\u00fcre\u00e7, bir deneyim, s\u00fcrekli bir olma, olu\u015fma hali. Tam da \u00f6teki olmayan bir \u00f6tekinin senden bir ba\u015fka sen, benden bir ba\u015fka ben\u2013 bir anne-ben \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131 durumu. Bu olu\u015f hali elbette \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 bir hal.S\u00fcrekli bir ihtiya\u00e7 halinde olan, eski varolu\u015fu, eski ben\u2019i s\u00fcrekli kesintiye u\u011fratan, \u00e7\u00f6zen, par\u00e7alayan bir \u00f6teki ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fman\u0131n, ondan sorumlu olman\u0131n yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorlamayla malul bir hal. (\u2026) Peki bu dengesizle\u015fme, ya da olma-olu\u015fma halini ciddiye al\u0131rsak, ge\u00e7ip gitmesini beklemek yerine bu deneyimin derimizden i\u00e7eri s\u0131zmas\u0131na, bizi k\u00f6kten d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmesine izin verirsek ne olur? Yani anneli\u011fe bir sadakat geli\u015ftirsek, onu yeni bir \u00f6znelli\u011fe \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131, bir davet olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrsek ne olur?\u201dAnneli\u011fin \u201cge\u00e7ip gitmesi\u201d yerine bir tecr\u00fcbeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi i\u00e7in, onun \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, ama ger\u00e7ekten d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek gerek. Tek ba\u015f\u0131na da de\u011fil, ba\u015fka kad\u0131nlarla, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla. \u00d6zge Yaka i\u015fte bunu yap\u0131p feminist kuramdan, psikanalizden, edebiyattan yararlanarak, kendi ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlayarak, anneli\u011fi bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm tecr\u00fcbesi haline getirmi\u015f. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n anneli\u011fe \u201csad\u0131k kalarak\u201d d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesinin, bunun i\u00e7in \u00e7abalamas\u0131n\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131yla birlikte neleri de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011fini sezdirmi\u015f.Annelik Kitab\u0131, tam da \u015fimdi, bug\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda anne olman\u0131n neye benzedi\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor, \u201cfeminist anne\u201dli\u011fin imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n\u0131 yokluyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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