\u201cEYVAH, \u00c7OCU\u011eUM YALAN S\u00d6YL\u00dcYOR!\u201d D\u0130YORSANIZ… Bir ebeveynin en b\u00fcy\u00fck gayesi d\u00fcr\u00fcst, g\u00fcvenilir, sevgi dolu bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmektir. Ancak g\u00fcn gelip de \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun bize ya da bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fini ke\u015ffetti\u011fimizde yahut bundan \u015f\u00fcphelendi\u011fimizde \u00e2deta ihanete u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissederiz. \u015e\u00fcphesiz her yalan\u0131 kriminal bir davaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek do\u011fru de\u011fildir ama yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi g\u00f6rmezden gelip bunu te\u015fvik etmek de istemeyiz. Oysa bizler de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden daha fazla yalan s\u00f6yleriz ve bunun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerinde ne gibi bir etki yaratabilece\u011finin pek fark\u0131nda de\u011filizdir. Peki, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011finden \u015f\u00fcphelendi\u011fimizde ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131z? Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu yalan s\u00f6ylemeye hangi davran\u0131\u015flar ve duygular y\u00f6nlendirir? Ger\u00e7e\u011fi gizlemek ile ger\u00e7ek olmayan bir \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemek aras\u0131nda bir fark var m\u0131d\u0131r? Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar neden di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara nazaran daha fazla yalan s\u00f6yler? D\u00fcr\u00fcst \u00e7ocu\u011funuz akran bask\u0131s\u0131yla bir yalanc\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrse bu kriz nas\u0131l a\u015f\u0131labilir? \u00c7ocu\u011fumuzun do\u011fru s\u00f6ylemenin erdemlerini i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmesini nas\u0131l sa\u011flayabiliriz? Yoksa biz fark\u0131nda olmadan s\u00f6ylediklerimiz ve eylemlerimizle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za yalan s\u00f6yleme konusunda olumsuz bir rol model mi oluyoruz? Bu alanda d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc bir uzman olan Dr. Paul Ekman, \u00c7ocuklar Neden Yalan S\u00f6yler? isimli kitab\u0131nda ebeveynlere, her ya\u015ftan \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u00e7e\u015fitli yalanlarla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabileceklerini g\u00f6steriyor. Ger\u00e7e\u011fi e\u011fip b\u00fckme davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki bili\u015fsel, duygusal ve sosyal s\u00fcre\u00e7leri bilimsel bulgular ve \u00f6rnek hik\u00e2yeler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda aktar\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar Neden Yalan S\u00f6yler?; yalanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en \u00e7ok alk\u0131\u015f ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fcnyada, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyen ebeveynler i\u00e7in m\u00fckemmel bir kaynak…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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