\u201cBaz\u0131 ayr\u0131l\u0131klar sadece geride b\u0131rakmakla de\u011fil, onlara d\u00f6n\u00fcp yeniden anlam vermekle tamamlan\u0131r.\u201d Psikoterapist Tuba Karacan\u2019dan d\u00f6rt ba\u015f\u0131 mamur bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k kitab\u0131; ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa giden yolun, ayr\u0131lman\u0131n, ayr\u0131lamaman\u0131n, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015flerin ve biti\u015flerin derin bir ke\u015ffi. Karacan bu kitapta esasen kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131za bir anlam \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 tutuyor. \u0130\u00e7 diki\u015fleri tersy\u00fcz ediyor. Geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat yoluna, anlam vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ayr\u0131l\u0131klara, silik izlere bir netlik ayar\u0131 yap\u0131yor. \u00d6ncesi ve sonras\u0131yla ayr\u0131l\u0131klara a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 ve yap\u0131c\u0131 bir dille yakla\u015fan bu kitap; filmler, \u015fark\u0131lar, \u015fiirler ve romanlardan \u00f6rneklerle de zenginle\u015ferek kendi ayr\u0131l\u0131k tecr\u00fcbemizi anlamam\u0131za imk\u00e2n veriyor. Yazar, ilk kitab\u0131 Herkes Evine D\u00f6nmek \u0130ster\u2019den sonra do\u011fdu\u011fumuz evden, o ilk kucaktan, sar\u0131p sarmaland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerden, hayallerimizi payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sevgiliden ayr\u0131lman\u0131n zaman\u0131n\u0131 i\u015faretliyor. Kitab\u0131n sonundaki \u201cAyr\u0131l\u0131k S\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u201dyle de her okura kendi ayr\u0131l\u0131k anlat\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kuraca\u011f\u0131 kelimeler b\u0131rak\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131lmak Zaman\u0131, kuramlar\u0131 kalp dilimize terc\u00fcme eden bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k kitab\u0131. Sahip oldu\u011fu her \u015feyi bir g\u00fcn yitirece\u011fi bilgisiyle ya\u015famak zorunda kalan, buna ra\u011fmen arzulamadan duramayan tek canl\u0131 insand\u0131r. Muhtemeldir ki kaybetmekten korkman\u0131n, s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya tutman\u0131n, vazge\u00e7ememeyi sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak sanman\u0131n sebebi de bu ontolojik s\u0131rdad\u0131r. Ne var ki ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n hakikati eninde sonunda insan\u0131 k\u0131sk\u0131vrak yakalar. Bazen kendi iste\u011fiyle bazen istemeden; hastal\u0131kla, \u00f6l\u00fcmle, ayr\u0131l\u0131kla hi\u00e7 bitmez sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkiler biter, terk etmez sand\u0131klar\u0131 gider. Sevgide, hayatta ve \u00f6l\u00fcmde, b\u00fct\u00fcn ili\u015fkilerden geriye sadece, \u201cYa\u015fad\u0131m,\u201d diyebilece\u011fimiz anlar kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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