Sevilmeyi herkes ister ama bu yolda neler harcad\u0131g\u0306\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, nelerden taviz verdig\u0306imizi ve asl\u0131nda gerc\u0327ek sevginin ne oldug\u0306unu hic\u0327 hesaba katmadan ili\u015fkilerin kollar\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131r\u0131z bazen kendimizi. Tu\u0308kendig\u0306imizde uyan\u0131r\u0131z. Sevilmek i\u00e7in c\u0327ok ug\u0306ras\u0327t\u0131g\u0306\u0131n\u0131z oldu mu? Sizi sevdig\u0306ini so\u0308yleyerek sizden as\u0327\u0131r\u0131 fedaka\u0302rl\u0131k talep eden biri kars\u0327\u0131s\u0131nda kis\u0327ilig\u0306inizin c\u0327ok d\u0131s\u0327\u0131nda davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in inanmad\u0131g\u0306\u0131n\u0131z bir hayat\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc hi\u00e7? Sonsuz bir sarmal\u0131n i\u00e7inde kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissetti\u011finiz halde d\u00f6ng\u00fcy\u00fc sonland\u0131rmak ad\u0131na o minicik ad\u0131m\u0131 atmaya \u00e7ekindiniz mi? Akl\u0131m\u0131z, mant\u0131g\u0306\u0131m\u0131z bize sag\u0306l\u0131kl\u0131 ve mutlu bir ilis\u0327kinin o kis\u0327iyle mu\u0308mku\u0308n olmayacag\u0306\u0131n\u0131, hic\u0327bir s\u0327eyin deg\u0306is\u0327meyeceg\u0306ini so\u0308yledig\u0306i halde neden tekrar d\u00f6neriz? Sevilmek ihtiyac\u0131yla manip\u00fcle edilmi\u015f, g\u00fcndelik manip\u00fclasyonlardan narsistik manip\u00fclasyona giden ta\u015fl\u0131, engebeli ve kasisli yollarda savrulmu\u015f olabilirsiniz. Sevgi yas\u0327amsal bir ihtiyac\u0327t\u0131r ve daima ulas\u0327acag\u0306\u0131n\u0131z bir yerlerde hep var olmaya devam edecektir. Neden bu kadar muhtac\u0327 hissettiniz ve sevilme beklentisiyle manipu\u0308le edildiniz? U\u0308zerine du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nmeye deg\u0306mez mi? Sevgide yaraland\u0131g\u0306\u0131n\u0131z yeri o kis\u0327i iyiles\u0327tirebilir san\u0131yorsunuz belki de. Oysa bos\u0327lug\u0306un sebepleri c\u0327ok uzak gec\u0327mis\u0327te. C\u0327ocukken \u0131ss\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131lan kalbinizde. Bugu\u0308ne ait hic\u0327 kimse oran\u0131n yaras\u0131n\u0131 onaramaz. Hic\u0327 kimse kendi ac\u0327mad\u0131g\u0306\u0131 yaray\u0131 kapatamaz. Peki manipu\u0308lasyonlar\u0131 yapan kis\u0327i sizseniz? Yalanlar\u0131n kol gezdig\u0306i bir du\u0308nyaya neden daha fazla katk\u0131 sag\u0306lad\u0131g\u0306\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nmek ister misiniz? I\u0307htiyac\u0327lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kars\u0327\u0131laman\u0131n daha direkt, cesur ve adil bir yolu daima vard\u0131r. Evet risk ic\u0327erir ve eliniz bos\u0327 do\u0308nebilirsiniz. Olsun, yeniden denersiniz. Psikiyatrist Dr. Bahar Tezcan, ili\u015fkilerin en \u00e7ok yara ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 alanlardan biri olan duygusal manip\u00fclasyonlar\u0131 kaleme al\u0131yor bu kez titizlikle. \u201cLove bombing-gaslighting-ghosting\u201d, ili\u015fkilerde stratejiler ve duygusal manip\u00fclasyonlar konular\u0131n\u0131n vakalar ve denemelerle anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 Duygusal Oyunlar, kendinizi manip\u00fcle ederken ya da edilirken buldu\u011funuz her duruma bilgi, kavray\u0131\u015f ve deneyim katacak. Her ne kadar \u201cger\u00e7ek hayat hik\u00e2yelerinden\u201d uyarlanmasa da, psikodinamik a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131yla insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamay\u0131, ili\u015fkileri anlamland\u0131rmay\u0131 hedefledi\u011finden kendinizden bir par\u00e7a bularak okuyacaks\u0131n\u0131z bu kitab\u0131. Siz yaz\u0131lmad\u0131n\u0131z ama siz de oradas\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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