Kimin hakl\u0131 kimin haks\u0131z oldu\u011fu yerine i\u00e7 karga\u015fadan \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fmek \u201cHi\u00e7bir zaman utan\u00e7, su\u00e7luluk, mecburiyet, g\u00f6rev nedeniyle bir \u015fey yapma. Bir \u015fey yapacaksan ayn\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6rdek beslerken yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi g\u00f6n\u00fclden yap.\u201d Marshall Rosenberg\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc \u015eiddetsiz \u0130leti\u015fim \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k tekrarlanan s\u00f6zlerinden biri. Liv Larsson K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k, Su\u00e7luluk ve Utan\u00e7\u2019ta i\u015fte bizim g\u00f6n\u00fclden vermekle ilgili kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7acak anahtarlar\u0131 sunuyor. Bu kitap k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve onun ard\u0131ndaki utan\u00e7 ve su\u00e7luluk duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 utanmadan ve su\u00e7luluk duymadan nas\u0131l kabul edip ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilece\u011fimize ili\u015fkin ilhamla dolu. \u201d Kitab\u0131n \u00f6ns\u00f6z\u00fcnde CNVC Sertifikal\u0131 \u015eiddetsiz \u0130leti\u015fim ve Sertifikasyon E\u011fitmeni Vivet Alevi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: \u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131n utand\u0131r\u0131larak, birileri taraf\u0131ndan akl\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na getirilmesi gereken k\u00f6t\u00fc, nank\u00f6r, nefsine hakim olamayan g\u00fcnahk\u00e2rlar olabilece\u011fine inand\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131k. Birilerine \u2018haddi bildirilmeli\u2019dir, o ba\u015f\u0131na hak etti\u011fi gelen biri\u2019dir. O nedenle; \u2018t\u00f6vbe etmeli\u2019dir. Birilerinin de bizim hakk\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemesi i\u00e7in \u015fekilden \u015fekile girebilir, utan\u00e7tan yerin dibine ge\u00e7ebilir, hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu ispat etmek, su\u00e7suz oldu\u011fumuzu kan\u0131tlamak i\u00e7in bin dereden su getirebiliriz. Ne kadar s\u0131k \u2018vallahi billahi\u2019 diye inan\u00e7l\u0131 inan\u00e7s\u0131z yemin etmi\u015fizdir. Elalem fark etmesin diye, kendimizi gizlemi\u015f ve bunlar\u0131n normal oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r. B\u00f6yle oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlara, bu bizsek; kendimize k\u0131zmak en normal haldir. Bunun \u015fiddet oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek akl\u0131m\u0131za bile gelmez.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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