\u00c7o\u011funlukla ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine, de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131na uygun veya bize yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 gibi bir hayat s\u00fcr\u00fcyoruz. \u00c7evrenize bak\u0131n kim, ka\u00e7 ki\u015fi kendi istedi\u011fi gibi ya\u015f\u0131yor? Kendinize de bak\u0131n, nas\u0131l ya\u015f\u0131yorsunuz? Kendiniz gibi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za emin misiniz? Gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n olan Koreli yazar Soo Hyun Kim ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na burnunu sokmas\u0131na izin vermemeye ve kendisi gibi ya\u015famaya karar verdi\u011finde oturmu\u015f neyi, neden, nas\u0131l yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6km\u00fc\u015f. \u00c7e\u015fitli \u00fclkelerde yay\u0131mlanan kitab\u0131 \u015fimdiye kadar 1 milyondan fazla ki\u015fi okudu\u011funa g\u00f6re yazd\u0131klar\u0131 hem ilgin\u00e7 hem de yararl\u0131 bulunmu\u015f olmal\u0131\u2026 \u0130\u015fte baz\u0131 \u00f6nerileri ve konu ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131: Hayat ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla bir yar\u0131\u015f de\u011fil, sen de birtak\u0131m notlar, puanlar kazanmak zorunda de\u011filsin. Kendini k\u00f6t\u00fc, hatta \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmekten endi\u015fe etme, herkesin ba\u015f\u0131na gelebilir. Gelip ge\u00e7enlerin seni incitmelerine izin verme. Kendini hep hakl\u0131 g\u00f6rme, hatalar\u0131na mazeret aray\u0131p bulma. Mutlu olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u015feye ihtiyac\u0131n yok, s\u0131radan insanlar da mutlu olurlar, hatta onlar\u0131n mutlu olma \u015fans\u0131 daha fazlad\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n seni yarg\u0131lamas\u0131na izin verme ama hakl\u0131 ele\u015ftiri ve uyar\u0131lara da kulak ver. Ya\u015fam\u0131na ili\u015fkin sordu\u011fun sorulara verece\u011fin yan\u0131tlar\u0131 erteleme; daha \u00f6nce verilmi\u015f, haz\u0131r yan\u0131tlara da \u00e7ok itibar etme. Kendi ger\u00e7ekli\u011finle y\u00fczle\u015fmekten \u00e7ekinme, yeterince cesur ol. Nerede parl\u0131yor, \u0131\u015f\u0131k sa\u00e7\u0131yorsan orada dur. Bunlar gibi pek \u00e7ok \u00f6nerinin ele al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu kitap size de ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irme f\u0131rsat\u0131 verebilir\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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