Beden Asla Yalan S\u00f6ylemez\u2019in yazar\u0131ndan \u201c\u00c7ocuklukta maruz kal\u0131nan \u00e7ok yo\u011fun ac\u0131mas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fiddetli oldu\u011fu hemen hemen hi\u00e7 fark edilmez. Bu genellikle \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin gayet ola\u011fan bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak kabul edilir. \u00c7ekti\u011fimiz ac\u0131n\u0131n a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede -genellikle tamamen- inkar edilmesi, sadece bize yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kabullenilmesini engellemekle kalmaz. Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun ceza korkusuyla bedeninde bast\u0131rmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6fkesini de yok eder. Anne babalar korkudan onurland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, yeti\u015fkin \u00e7ocuk t\u00fcm ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca onlar\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini bekler, b\u00f6ylece terk edilme korkusunun h\u00fck\u00fcm s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir ba\u011flanma modeli i\u00e7inde s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kal\u0131r. Ba\u011flanmalar\u0131n ger\u00e7ek duygular\u0131n yoklu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar\u0131, zihinsel ve fiziksel bozukluklar ile ya\u015fam doyumunun ve mutlulu\u011fun bast\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 ve feda edilmesidir.\u201d Duygular\u0131m\u0131z ile bedenlerimizin kaydettikleri ve ezelden beri i\u00e7selle\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz ahlak kurallar\u0131na uymak i\u00e7in hissetmek istediklerimiz aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ele ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 Beden Asla Yalan S\u00f6ylemez ile t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyada ses getiren Alice Miller, \u00d6fkeden Cesarete\u2019de okurlar\u0131n\u0131n kendisine y\u00f6neltti\u011fi sorulara yan\u0131t veriyor. Duygular\u0131n iyile\u015ftirici ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc bir kez daha ortaya sererek, bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00f6fke ile kanser gibi fiziksel hastal\u0131klar aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011flant\u0131y\u0131, istismardan kurtulan bir\u00e7ok ki\u015finin uyu\u015fturucuya veya su\u00e7a y\u00f6nelme sebeplerini ya da aileleri nesiller boyu zulme mahkum eden d\u00f6ng\u00fcy\u00fc ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor. Dini inanc\u0131n \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131 \u00fczerindeki etkileri, terap\u00f6tik toplulu\u011fun ger\u00e7e\u011fi inkar etmesi ve antidepresanlara ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k gibi \u00e7ok tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lan teorilere \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutarken, ku\u015faklararas\u0131 s\u00fcren psikolojik ve fiziksel mirasa de\u011finiyor. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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