\u201cKonu\u015fuyoruz, konu\u015fuyoruz, konu\u015fuyoruz da s\u00f6ylediklerimizin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kula\u011f\u0131ndan i\u00e7eri ses olarak girip nas\u0131l bir hisse d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden pek bahsetmiyoruz. \u0130stedim ki sesin hisse d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerde biraz soluklanal\u0131m. \u2018K\u0131rk kere s\u00f6yledim\u2019 gibi art\u0131k dilimize pelesenk olmu\u015f dil kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 kullan\u0131rken asl\u0131nda ne demek istedi\u011fimizi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bunu nas\u0131l duydu\u011funu, nas\u0131l anlamland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fal\u0131m.\u201dZiya Sel\u00e7ukYapma yavrum. Yavrum yapma. \u00c7ocu\u011fum yapmasana. Yahu yapma! Yapma dedim ya! K\u0131rk kere s\u00f6yledim sana yapma \u015funu diye!Defalarca \u201cYapma,\u201d dediniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz yapmaya devam etti. Sonunda \u201cK\u0131rk kere s\u00f6yledim sana!\u201d da dediniz. Ama belki de \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bunu yaparken ne demek istedi\u011fini hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmediniz. Oysa sorman\u0131z gereken soru \u015fuydu: K\u0131rk kere uyar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u00e2lde yine ayn\u0131 \u015feyi yapmaya devam eden \u00e7ocuk ne demek ister?\u201c\u00c7ocukla ileti\u015fim\u201d deyince nedense \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u201cBiz s\u00f6yleyece\u011fiz, anlataca\u011f\u0131z, \u00e7ocuk dinleyecek; biz isteyece\u011fiz, \u00e7ocuk yapacak,\u201d kabilinden bir ileti\u015fim \u015feklini anl\u0131yoruz. \u00c7ocukla ileti\u015fimde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olaylar bir anlamda koca bir ebeveynlik okyanusunun i\u00e7indeki buzda\u011f\u0131na benzer. Unutmay\u0131n, bir de buzda\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131 var.Ben s\u00f6yledim, o ne anlad\u0131?O s\u00f6yledi, ben ne anlad\u0131m?Benim s\u00f6yledi\u011fim ona ne hissettirdi?O bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131yla ne anlatmak istedi?Bana cevap vermedi\u011finde s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fi \u015feyler neler?S\u00f6yledi\u011finde \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u015feyler neler?Y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi ve e\u011fitim alan\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f Dr. Ziya Sel\u00e7uk\u2019un de\u011ferli kaleminden, s\u0131k kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dil kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 ebeveynlik a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan yeni bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlemeye tabi tutacak, \u00e7ocu\u011fa ve \u00e7ocuklu\u011fa bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fc bir hasbih\u00e2l… Kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kal\u0131plar, deyimler, imalar, vurgular \u00fczerinden aileden ba\u015flay\u0131p topluma yay\u0131lacak bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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