Metaforlarla \u00c7ift Terapisi Yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 Leyla ile Mecnun kavu\u015fsayd\u0131, hayatlar\u0131 bir \u2018a\u015fk hikayesi\u2019 olur muydu? Ferhat ile \u015eirin\u2019in aras\u0131na da\u011flar girmeseydi Ferhat\u2019\u0131 a\u015fkla anlat\u0131r ve \u015eirin\u2019i hasretle anar m\u0131yd\u0131k? Z\u00fcleyha\u2019n\u0131n Yusuf\u2019a a\u015fk\u0131 imk\u00e2ns\u0131z olmasayd\u0131, Z\u00fcleyha ismi bunca \u00e7ok an\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131yd\u0131? Selvi Boylum Al Yazmal\u0131m\u2019\u0131n Asya\u2019s\u0131na sonunda buruk bir ac\u0131 kalmasayd\u0131, filmi unutulmaz olur muydu? \u00c7ok konu\u015fulan a\u015fk \u015fiirleri de derin hasretlerin, yak\u0131c\u0131 ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n tatl\u0131 meyvesi de\u011fil midir? Kolayca verselerdi k\u0131z\u0131 \u015fair o\u011flana, susacakt\u0131 \u015fair. Ne ad\u0131n\u0131 bilecektik ne a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131 sevecektik ne \u015fiirini duyacakt\u0131k. Kara sevdalar olmasayd\u0131, onca t\u00fcrk\u00fc yak\u0131l\u0131r ve yakar m\u0131yd\u0131 bizi? Anla\u015f\u0131lan o ki, a\u015fk, ac\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu yerde n\u00f6bet bekliyor. Mutlulu\u011fun yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda can\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor, u\u00e7up gidiyor. Son y\u0131llarda psikoterapist olarak kavu\u015fmalar\u0131n ve kavu\u015fanlar\u0131n hik\u00e2yelerini dinliyorum. Garip ki kavu\u015fmalarda da ac\u0131lar var. O ac\u0131lar da a\u015fk diye anlat\u0131lmay\u0131 hak ediyor bence. \u015eiirler do\u011furacak kadar asil sanc\u0131lar\u0131 var \u00e7iftlerin. Filmlere konu olacak denli yak\u0131c\u0131 h\u00fcsranlar\u0131 var. Romanlar\u0131 doldurmaya yetecek buruk hasretler ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. Evlilik, insan-insan ili\u015fkilerinin en yak\u0131n\u0131, en s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z\u0131. Gelin g\u00f6r\u00fcn ki, tam da bu y\u00fczden, yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden korkulu, kayg\u0131l\u0131, kederli, teredd\u00fctl\u00fc bir ak\u0131\u015fa kapt\u0131r\u0131yor e\u015fleri. En \u00e7ok mutluluk umduklar\u0131 yerde ac\u0131 buluyorlar. Ne geri d\u00f6nebiliyor ne ileri gidebiliyorlar. Geri d\u00f6nmenin de ileri gitmenin de ac\u0131 bedelleri var. Kabul ediyorum, talihsiz bir mesle\u011fim var. Romantik olma hakk\u0131m\u0131 elimden ald\u0131 \u00e7oktan. Kavu\u015famayanlar\u0131n a\u015fk hik\u00e2yelerinin unutturdu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamak zorunda kal\u0131yorum \u00e7iftlerle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerimde. Ve A\u015fk Evlili\u011fin Ellerinden Tuttu, \u00e7iftlere, kadim metaforlar\u0131n aynas\u0131nda ili\u015fkilerini yeni bir g\u00f6zle seyrettiriyor. Her seans\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7iftlere hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 kitab\u0131n sonuna yaz\u0131yorum: \u201c\u0130yi insanlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc ili\u015fkileri olabilir. K\u00f6t\u00fc ili\u015fkileri olanlar h\u00e2l\u00e2 iyi insanlard\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz yerden kalkman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Her zaman yeni se\u00e7enekleriniz var.\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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