{"id":722287,"date":"2025-08-27T19:02:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-27T16:02:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/urun\/odullerle-cezalandirilmak\/"},"modified":"2026-04-16T02:30:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T23:30:27","slug":"odullerle-cezalandirilmak","status":"publish","type":"product","link":"https:\/\/roveyayinevi.com.tr\/index.php\/urun\/odullerle-cezalandirilmak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6d\u00fcllerle Cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de Ko\u015fulsuz Ebeveynlik kitab\u0131yla tan\u0131nan AlfieKohn\u2019un ba\u015fyap\u0131t\u0131 \u00d6d\u00fcllerle Cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmak, 1993\u2019teki ilk yay\u0131m\u0131ndan bu yana say\u0131s\u0131z ebeveyni, \u00f6\u011fretmeni ve y\u00f6neticiyi \u00f6d\u00fcllerden uzak uygulamalara y\u00f6neltti. Motivasyonel psikoloji ve pedagoji alanlar\u0131nda ise \u015fiddetli tart\u0131\u015fmalar ba\u015flatt\u0131. Yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc etkinin as\u0131l nedeni, bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalarda y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bir ger\u00e7e\u011fin par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 birle\u015ftirerek gayet huzursuz edici ama g\u00f6rmezden gelmesi de olanaks\u0131z bir manzaray\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze sermesiydi: \u00d6d\u00fcller bizi cezaland\u0131r\u0131yordu. \u00d6d\u00fcl ile cezan\u0131n ama\u00e7lar\u0131 nas\u0131l benzerse, i\u015flettikleri mekanizma ve yaratt\u0131klar\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar da benzerdir. K\u0131sacas\u0131, \u00f6d\u00fcl ile ceza ayn\u0131 madeni paran\u0131n iki y\u00fcz\u00fcd\u00fcr, ama o paran\u0131n al\u0131m g\u00fcc\u00fc pek yoktur. Bunlar, \u00e7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 ifadelerdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc e\u011fitim, \u00f6\u011fretim ve y\u00f6netim alanlar\u0131nda kullan\u0131lan al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k strateji \u015f\u00f6yle \u00f6zetlenebilecek niteliktedir: Bunu yaparsan \u015funu al\u0131rs\u0131n. Birinin istedi\u011fimiz gibi davranmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in burnunun ucunda envai\u00e7e\u015fit r\u00fc\u015fvet sallar dururuz. Ama bunun bir insan etkile\u015fimi de\u011fil, ev hayvan\u0131 terbiye y\u00f6ntemi oldu\u011funu nedense g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, \u00f6d\u00fcl vaadiyle harekete ge\u00e7irilen bireylerin daha k\u00f6t\u00fc i\u015f \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, daha niteliksiz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler \u00fcretti\u011fini, daha az \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini, hatta ahlaki ilkeleri robot gibi uygulamaktan \u00f6teye gidemedi\u011fini ortaya koymaktad\u0131r. \u00d6d\u00fclle \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz yeg\u00e2ne \u015fey, \u00f6d\u00fcl kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda itaat, hatta biat etmektir. Kazanc\u0131m\u0131z ise \u00f6d\u00fcl ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ibarettir. AlfieKohn\u2019un ger\u00e7ek ya\u015famdan \u00f6rneklerle ve ince bir espri anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla zenginle\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00d6d\u00fcllerle Cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmak, ek b\u00f6l\u00fcmleri, anlat\u0131m\u0131 geni\u015fleten kapsaml\u0131 son notlar\u0131 ve ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir rehber niteli\u011findeki dev kaynak\u00e7as\u0131 ile \u00f6d\u00fcllere getirilen ele\u015ftirinin dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131 orijinal yap\u0131tt\u0131r. \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fcn olumsuz etkilerini e\u011fitim, \u00f6\u011fretim ve i\u015f y\u00f6netimi alanlar\u0131nda ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlerken, ebeveynlere, \u00f6\u011fretmenlere ve y\u00f6neticilere alternatif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f bi\u00e7imleri ile pratik y\u00f6ntemler sunacakt\u0131r. \u0130lk yay\u0131m\u0131n yirmi be\u015finci y\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fc i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanan bu bask\u0131da, Kohn\u2019un g\u00fcncel verileri inceledi\u011fi otuz dokuz sayfal\u0131k yeni bir Sons\u00f6z de bulunmaktad\u0131r. \u201cAlfieKohn bir efsaneyi daha yerle bir ediyor ve bireyleri y\u00f6netmek i\u00e7in \u00f6d\u00fcl kullanman\u0131n zararl\u0131 etkilerini ikna edici bi\u00e7imde \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze seriyor. Her ebeveyn, \u00f6\u011fretmen ve \u015firket y\u00f6neticisi bu kitab\u0131 okumal\u0131, hem de hemen!\u201d \u2014Thomas Gordon, Etkili Anne Baba E\u011fitimi (E.A.E.) program\u0131 kurucusu \u201cDoyurucu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc. \u00d6d\u00fcllerin y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 etkilerine dair ezber bozan bu inceleme her ebeveyn ve \u00f6\u011fretmen i\u00e7in zorunlu kitap olmal\u0131.\u201d \u2014AdeleFaber, Konu\u015f Ki Dinlesin, Dinle Ki Konu\u015fsun ve Karde\u015f Rekabeti yazar\u0131 \u201c[\u00d6d\u00fcllerin] verimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc (&#8230;) yazan AlfieKohn (&#8230;) motivasyon art\u0131rmaya y\u00f6nelik uygulamalara getirdi\u011fi ele\u015ftirileri kapsaml\u0131 ve somut bir kan\u0131tlar birikimiyle de destekliyor.\u201d \u2014Los Angeles Times \u201cD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131n\u0131zda devrim yaratacak t\u00fcrden, al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir kitap. Davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcl-ceza psikolojisine getirilen bu ele\u015ftiri, fikirlerinize meydan okumakla kalmayacak, ufkunuzu da a\u00e7acak.\u201d \u2014PublishersWeekly \u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131 nas\u0131l harekete ge\u00e7irebilece\u011fimize dair s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuz varsay\u0131mlara a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bi\u00e7imde meydan okuyan \u00d6d\u00fcllerle Cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmak, y\u00f6neticilerin, \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin ve ebeveynlerin dikkatini \u00e7ekecek, havu\u00e7 ve sopaya bel ba\u011flayanlar\u0131 ise son derece tedirgin edecek.\u201d \u2014Prof. Dr. Richard M. 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