\u0130hanete k\u00f6r olman\u0131n, a\u011f\u0131r bir haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00f6rmezden gelmenin, kendi kendimizi aldatman\u0131n \u00e7okyayg\u0131n oldu\u011fu bir ger\u00e7ektir.”\u00d6rtbas etmek” su\u00e7tan daha k\u00f6t\u00fc ise, ihanete k\u00f6rl\u00fck ihanetin kendisinden de daha k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir.Sadakatsizlik, \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131, ensest, aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet, mobbing, haks\u0131zl\u0131k, adaletsizlik… Bunlar\u0131n hepsi”ihanet” \u00f6rnekleridir. \u0130hanet edenin, sadakatsiz bir e\u015f, istismar eden bir baba veya anne, kibirli bir patron,otoriter bir h\u00fck\u00fcmet veya yozla\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir kurum olmas\u0131na bakmaks\u0131z\u0131n, kendimizi korumak i\u00e7in ger\u00e7e\u011fi,g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnde olan\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi \u00e7o\u011funlukla reddediyoruz. Bazen ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bildi\u011fini bilmezdengeliyoruz; fark etmiyoruz, g\u00f6rm\u00fcyoruz ya da daha do\u011frusu g\u00f6rmezden geliyoruz ve sonu\u00e7ta kendikendimizi aldat\u0131yoruz. Peki ama neden?Psikoloji Profes\u00f6r\u00fc Jennifer J. Freyd ve Klinik Psikolog ve Psikoterapist Pamela J. Birrell neden b\u00f6yledavrand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli vaka \u00f6rneklerinin e\u015fli\u011finde a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor. Bizzat kendisi de \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda cinsel istismarau\u011fram\u0131\u015f Freyd ve 25 y\u0131ll\u0131k psikoterapi deneyimine sahip Birrell ihaneti g\u00f6rmezden gelmenin nas\u0131l g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve\u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 motivasyonlar\u0131 oldu\u011funu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bi\u00e7imde sergiliyorlar. Kurbanlar\u0131n neden ve nas\u0131l y\u0131llarca ihaneteve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131lara katland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klarken y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 konusunda da uyar\u0131yor ve itirazetmenin, kurtulman\u0131n yol ve y\u00f6ntemlerini de g\u00f6steriyorlar.Kendi kendimizi aldatmaya son vermek ve ger\u00e7eklerle y\u00fczle\u015ferek kazan\u0131lacak \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve \u00f6zsayg\u0131 i\u00e7in bu kitapiyi bir rehber olacakt\u0131r. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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