Her anne baban\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131kan sorunlard\u0131r; \u00e7ocu\u011funun bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc tuvalet al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kazanamamas\u0131, yemek yememesi, karde\u015fiyle kavga etmesi, inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, internet d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve dahas\u0131…Bir k\u0131s\u0131m anne baba, bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ne anlama geldi\u011fini bildikleri i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 incitmeden sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zerken, bir k\u0131s\u0131m anne baba ise sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcnde \u00e7aresiz kalarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya girerler. Bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarda, hem kendilerini hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131prat\u0131rlar.Pedagog Dr. Adem G\u00fcne\u015f \u00c7ocuk Neyi Neden Yapar? \u0130simli kitab\u0131, bir ‘\u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 anlama rehberi’ olarak haz\u0131rlad\u0131. \u00c7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n nedenlerini ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6nerilerini yal\u0131n bir dille, ebeveynlerle payla\u015ft\u0131. Konu bitiminde verilen soru-cevaplarla da anne babaya; o davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ni\u00e7in sergilemi\u015f oldu\u011funu ve anne baban\u0131n nas\u0131l bir yol izlemesi gerekti\u011fini anlatt\u0131.O\u011flum neden yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor olabilir?O\u011flum, ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn okulda arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kalemini alm\u0131\u015f. Bana, “\u00d6\u011fretmenim verdi bu kalemi” dedi. Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n annesiyle konu\u015funca, ger\u00e7ekleri \u00f6\u011frendim. O\u011flum neden yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor?Kendisini bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hisseden \u00e7ocuk, yalan s\u00f6yler.\u00c7ocu\u011fa ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde kalem al\u0131nm\u0131yor, okulda da \u00f6\u011fretmen illa o kalemin getirilmesini istiyorsa, anne-baba da \u00e7ocu\u011fa, “\u015eimdi al\u0131r\u0131z, yar\u0131n al\u0131r\u0131z” diye uygulamada gecikmeye sebep oluyorsa, \u00e7ocuk da kalemi olmas\u0131 ad\u0131na kendince bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmu\u015f olabilir.Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kalemini alarak ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 gidermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocu\u011fa, anne evde sorsa, “Bu kalem kimin?” diye, bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun annesine “Arkada\u015f\u0131mdan bu kalemi izinsiz ald\u0131m” diyebilmesi i\u00e7in, annesi taraf\u0131ndan ne duygusal, ne de psikolojik bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda tutuluyor olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m.E\u011fer \u00e7ocuk annesinden gelecek bir \u015fiddet veya tepkiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tahmin ederse, o takdirde kendisini koruyabilmek i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6yleyecektir. B\u00f6ylesi bir durum varsa sizden korkuyor demektir. \u0130zinsiz ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011fi zaman verece\u011finiz tepkiden \u00e7ekiniyor demektir. O takdirde, \u00e7ocu\u011fun yalan s\u00f6ylememesi i\u00e7in \u00fcst\u00fcnde bask\u0131 olmamas\u0131 laz\u0131m. \u00c7ocuk bug\u00fcn kalem i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flarsa, yar\u0131n daha k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015feyler i\u00e7in de yalan s\u00f6yleyebilir.Pedagog Dr. G\u00fcne\u015f, \u00c7ocuk Neyi Neden Yapar? Kitab\u0131nda temel pedagojik bilgilerle birlikte, k\u0131sa ve \u00f6z olarak olumsuz \u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n nedenlerini ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6nerilerini sunuyor. Yal\u0131n bir dille ele al\u0131nan bu konular\u0131n tamam\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn anne-babalar\u0131n sorunlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda belki de…Ve Pedagog Dr. \u00c2dem G\u00fcne\u015f, sat\u0131rlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan nedene \u015f\u00f6yle bir a\u00e7\u0131klama getiriyor:”\u00c7ocuk kendini oldu\u011fu gibi kabul eden bir ebeveyn yan\u0131nda de\u011filse, i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015fa vuram\u0131yorsa veya kendini d\u0131\u015fa vurdu\u011fu kadarl\u0131k k\u0131sm\u0131yla dahi ciddiye al\u0131nm\u0131yorsa, b\u00f6ylesi bir \u00e7ocuk, d\u00fcd\u00fckl\u00fc tencerenin \u0131s\u0131nmas\u0131 ve patlamaya haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131 gibi bir durumdad\u0131r.”\u00c7ocuk e\u011fitimine dair ‘s\u0131k\u00e7a sorulan sorulara’ cevap vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kitap, ebeveynlerin ba\u015fucu kitab\u0131 olmay\u0131 hak ediyor. Kitap tam manas\u0131yla, pratik bir bilgi kayna\u011f\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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