\u00c7ocukken kolayl\u0131kla verebildi\u011fimiz hay\u0131r deme ve itiraz etme tepkisi, itiraz etmeyi sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ve muhalefetle ba\u011fda\u015ft\u0131ran ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu boyun e\u011fen, edilgen bir bireye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren toplumsal kodlarla gittik\u00e7e k\u00f6relir. Bu durum yeti\u015fkin hayat\u0131nda aile, i\u015f, dost ve a\u015fk ili\u015fkileri gibi her t\u00fcrden ili\u015fkide s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 durumlara sebep olabildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin akl\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli me\u015fgul ederek huzurunu ka\u00e7\u0131rabilir. \u201cHay\u0131r\u201d demek hepimize neden bu kadar zor gelir? Onaylamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri onaylar g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek pahas\u0131na, bizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na uyum sa\u011flamaya iten nedir? \u0130li\u015fkilerimizde sevilmeme ya da reddedilme tehdidi bizi nas\u0131l y\u00f6nlendirir? Hakl\u0131 bir \u201chay\u0131r\u201d\u0131 ifade etmek, ger\u00e7ek bir bireyin olu\u015fmas\u0131na ve g\u00fc\u00e7lemesine nas\u0131l katk\u0131da bulunur? Kal\u0131plardan kurtularak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi \u00f6zg\u00fcrce ifade edebilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fcd\u00fcr? Psikolog Marie Haddou, Hay\u0131r Demeyi Bilmek\u2019te ki\u015finin kendisini tan\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131 ve ifade etmesini sa\u011flayan \u201cyap\u0131c\u0131 hay\u0131r\u201d ile savunma ve s\u00fcrekli hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaya y\u00f6nelik \u201cgereksiz hay\u0131r\u201d aras\u0131ndaki ayr\u0131m\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyor. Yazar i\u00e7imizdeki de\u011fi\u015fme kapasitesini a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak enerji ve cesareti sa\u011flayarak \u201chay\u0131r\u201d diyememenin sebep oldu\u011fu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lardan kurtulmay\u0131 vaat ediyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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