\u201cVefal\u0131 olmak, unutmamak de\u011fildir. Nedense hep kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z, belki de unutmaya e\u011filimli oldu\u011fumuzdan, her \u015feyi unuttu\u011fumuzdand\u0131r bu yan\u0131lg\u0131. Oysa bazen tam tersine, vefam\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermek, vefal\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu anlatmak i\u00e7in unutmak, unutmak, unutmak gerekir. Unutmak, her zaman al\u00e7akl\u0131k de\u011fildir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc, bazen de ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamakt\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda hi\u00e7 unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir \u015feyi, bir t\u00fcr bilgelik bilgisiyle, maskesiyle de diyebiliriz, hi\u00e7 hat\u0131rlam\u0131yormu\u015f gibi yapmak da unutman\u0131n erdemlerinden biri say\u0131labilir. Hem unutmazsak nas\u0131l vefal\u0131 olabiliriz ki? Vefa, bazen bir insan\u0131, bir an\u0131, bir durumu unutmakt\u0131r, o insana ra\u011fmen elbette, o ana, ya\u015fant\u0131ya, duyguya, duruma g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz vefa sebebiyle. B\u0131rakal\u0131m \u015fimdi \u2018vefa bir semtten ibaretmi\u015f me\u011fer\u2019 diye \u015fairane, c\u00fcmle k\u0131rmas\u0131 dizeler kurmay\u0131, asl\u0131nda vefa o \u2018semt\u2019ten hi\u00e7 ayr\u0131lmamakt\u0131r, ayr\u0131l\u0131p da \u00fcst\u00fcne timsah g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 ak\u0131tmak de\u011fil! Vefal\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in unutmak zorunday\u0131z. Tuhaf m\u0131 geldi bu c\u00fcmle? (…) A\u015fktan ihanete, tutkudan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, dostluktan yolda\u015fl\u0131\u011fa, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131ktan inada, t\u00fcm duygularda ve de\u011ferlerde bir i\u00e7erik de\u011fi\u015fimi, \u00f6z yitimi, boyut d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Vefay\u0131 bile reklam ettiklerine bak\u0131l\u0131rsa, bu hafifleme hayli s\u00fcrecek demektir. O y\u00fczden bu hafifli\u011fe raz\u0131 olmaktansa, vefay\u0131 unutmak daha vefal\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f bile say\u0131labilir…\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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