D\u00fcnyaya a\u011flayarak geliriz. B\u00fcy\u00fcmekse bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrecidir. Buna ra\u011fmen \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzdaki ya\u015fama sevincini \u00f6zleriz yine de… Soru soran, ara\u015ft\u0131ran, merak eden, oyun oynayan, o \u201chaz yarat\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d \u00e7ocu\u011fun, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e arzular\u0131 k\u00f6relir, ilgileri azal\u0131r ve yetinmeyi bilen bir yeti\u015fkine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ilgi ve merak\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zellikle cinsellikle ilgili oldu\u011fu, sorular\u0131ndan ve oyunlar\u0131ndan bellidir. \u00c7ocuk, cinselli\u011fi bilmek ister, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerse ba\u015fka bir \u015feyi, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc \u00f6\u011fretmenin pe\u015findedir.Psikanaliz bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na koyarak onlar\u0131 neredeyse idealle\u015ftirir. Arzular\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu gelece\u011fe y\u00f6neltti\u011fi varsay\u0131l\u0131rsa, b\u00fcy\u00fcme de hazlar\u0131n azalt\u0131l\u0131p daralt\u0131lmas\u0131 olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir. Demek ki \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e hep bir \u015feylerden feragat edecektir. Kre\u015f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk da toplumsalla\u015fma ad\u0131na k\u00fclt\u00fcre ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 dile kat\u0131l\u0131rken hi\u00e7 vazge\u00e7mek istemeyece\u011fi bir \u015feyi b\u0131rakmak durumunda kalm\u0131\u015f gibidir; ifadesiz benli\u011fidir bu, dil \u00f6ncesi benli\u011fi… \u201c\u00d6dipal \u00e7ocuk\u201d kendi cinsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131na at\u0131l\u0131rken, s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, tutku dolu bir hayat vard\u0131r geride.Psikanalizin ortaya \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131 da s\u00f6zl\u00fc ileti\u015fimin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu durum ile dili kullanabilme yetisi aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ve i\u015fbirli\u011fidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenirken konu\u015fmayan yan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da canl\u0131 tutabiliriz. Geli\u015fimi yaln\u0131zca dilsel becerilerin edinilmesi olarak tan\u0131mlamazsak, ifade becerisi olan ve olmayan benlikler aras\u0131ndaki al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi \u00e7ocukta daha iyi besleyebiliriz.Kimine g\u00f6re \u201cen b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f psikanalitik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerden biri\u201d olan Adam Phillips bu kitab\u0131nda hepimizin i\u00e7inde s\u00fcr\u00fcp giden yabani ile e\u011fitilmi\u015f \u00e7ocuk, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zca d\u00fc\u015f kuran ile bilimci aras\u0131ndaki o bitmeyen \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 anlat\u0131yor. Bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n herhangi bir taraf\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7meden, birlikte beslenme ve \u00e7o\u011falma olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rarak hayata kar\u015f\u0131 sa\u011flam, engin bir ilgi uyand\u0131rmay\u0131 ama\u00e7l\u0131yor.Phillips\u2019in Freud\u2019la g\u00f6bek ba\u011f\u0131 yerli yerinde, ama fikirleri ve alg\u0131lamalar\u0131 g\u00f6z kama\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor… \u015eimdiye kadar yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f en iyi kitap.” Carmen Callil, Daily TelegraphPhillips a\u015fk\u0131n, sanat\u0131n, mizah\u0131n ve \u00f6teki ne\u015fe kaynaklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc veren ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k bir \u015feylerin \u00f6rt\u00fclerinden ba\u015fka bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ilan eden bildik Freudcu indirgemecilikten koparak, do\u011fumla gelen haz ve i\u015ftah\u0131 co\u015fkuyla selaml\u0131yor.” Sunday TelegraphBizi kendimize, beklenmedik olana ve derinlere \u00e7ekiyor. S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve utanc\u0131, sayg\u0131n, ilgiye de\u011fer durumlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcyor; huysuzlu\u011fumuza doyurucu bir t\u00fcr asalet kazand\u0131r\u0131yor.” Nicci Gerrard, Observer<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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